The Village Idiom

loosen the apron strings

When someone "loosens the apron strings," it means they are allowing someone who is dependent on them to become more independent and self-reliant.

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In a sentence

  • Mary's parents finally decided to loosen the apron strings and allow her to study abroad.
  • As the new manager, Dave felt the need to loosen the apron strings a little and give his employees more independence.
  • After years of sheltering her children, Sara realized it was time to loosen the apron strings and let them make their own decisions.

Where it comes from and how it is used

One variation of the idiom "apron string" is "apron-string hold," which refers to a situation in which someone is under the close control or influence of another person, particularly a parent or guardian. The phrase suggests a tight grip or control exerted over someone, inhibiting their freedom or independence. "Loosen the apron strings" can be seen as the opposite of an "apron-string hold," as it implies a release or loosening of this control.

The idiom "loosen the apron strings" represents the act of granting more freedom or independence to someone, particularly a child or dependent individual. It can be related to other idioms such as "loosen the purse strings," "apron string," "apron-string hold," "turn loose," and "cut loose," which all emphasize the idea of releasing or granting more autonomy and independence. These idioms capture the concept of transitioning from a dependent state to a more independent one, allowing someone to become more self-reliant.

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